One month post-op

[stale_mango]

After viewing all of your photographs, the indentation is definitely noticeable, ldbraveheart. However, similar to a mole on a person's face or asymmetrical breasts, I believe it gives your penis character. As long as everything is functioning correctly, I wouldn't worry about it.

If you're concerned about explaining it to future partners, you could claim you were having sex with a woman of considerable size and your penis missed the vagina while she was riding you causing it to bend. Personally, I'll just tell the truth, but either way works.

[kbk2]

your penis looks fine. i bet no partner will complain about its appearance as long as it works good, feels good, which it will. a lot of guys have curvy penises. if you subconsciously call attention to your "defect", then a partner will pick up on that negative energy. you have been seeking perfection for 16 years, so it's time to accept that you cannot be perfect. good enough" is okay. start enjoying the new you.

(lol, you can always tell your partner you were "bobbitized" and the ring is point of reattachment)

[ldbraveheart]

HI All, thanks for your feedback. I guess I'm close to as good as it'll get. I'm okay with that. I've noticed that I think I may have lost 1/4-1/2 inch length to my erection..maybe my imagination, because I never really measured. I just did...and I'm at about 6" length (rounding up, maybe). I want to start a manual PE routine to gain some length, and maybe even improve the contour of my skin unevenness. I have a traction device (X-4 Labs), but I'm not crazy about it. There seems to be a ton of PE options. So, my question is what routine should I use? jelq, traction, vac, weight, clamping. I don't know much about all these. I've been reading; but I'd like to ask others what would be the most effective method. With 3 kids, my time is limited, and I don't want to be wearing something that is obvious to others. Thanks

[londonlad]

id leave it alone while healing...ask your doctor when you can start....you dont want to damage his hard work

[ldbraveheart]

Hey London, at my one-month check-up, Doc said "no restrictions," and he confirmed that I could begin using the traction device to start straightening the curve. I thouight it ws premature to do this, which is why I waited another month, to allow for more healing. Doc basically said that since my scar wound is healed, I couldn't do any damage. He's the expert, right. Anyway, I'm 9 weeks post-op today, and want to get started on the PE routine. Any advice on which product/routine would be great. Thanks.

[stale_mango]

There's a post in the pumping forum where a member mentions using the Bathmate to straighten a curved penis.

http://www.mynewsize.com/forum/13208-post8.html

[ldbraveheart]

I've had sex now a few times...actually did 10 minutes ago!! My wife doesn't know the story...that's a story for another time. I have to say that all in all, Doc did me no wrong! He was quite honest the whole time. The only aspect I am not happy with is the indent at top shaft---and the Doc said before surgery that was an area that he was opposed to inserting any of the Belladerm. The reason he opposed it was because of the huge scar I had, and he felt that the poor vascularity/bloodflow/circulation after the scar revision would put me at risk for another necrosis breakdown. This is why he did not insert any Bella at that spot..rather he went around it--on top, underneath, etc. The areas he did fill in look pretty good, so my main problem is that 1 area..but again, I knew going in to the recon...so I'm feeling okay right now. As I said, I do think I lost 1/4-1/2 " length, which I'll mention to Doc at my March 4th check-up. I think it's still healing, so that may be a reason. Until then, I will be starting some PE. I bought the Bathmate, and will give it a try....Oh joy, the quest continues....it will probably never end!

[stale_mango]

Originally Posted by ldbraveheart

I've had sex now a few times...actually did 10 minutes ago!! My wife doesn't know the story...that's a story for another time.

Congratulations, mate!! Has your wife mentioned anything about the indentation, or does she not mind?

[ldbraveheart]

My wife hasn't mentioned anything about it. Honestly, I don't think she would notice the indent unless she was giving me deep-throat with all the lights on, etc. I don't think that will be happening anytime soon, so it should remain my secret for now.

[ldbraveheart]

Hi All, update here....I bought that Bathmate pump...even though I liked it, Doc S scolded me for using it without checking with him first...because it turned my scar purple. London, you were right about the warning. Luckily, it faded for the most part, so Doc S referred me to the Grip system for weight-hanging. I started 3 days ago. Wow--penises are amazing! I'm not saying I had growth yet, but the hanging has done an amazing thing....my nocturnal erections are rock-hard...like I took a Viagra. That is a good sign...I will stick with this grip system for a while. The appearance, each day, is still improving, and I'm 3 months post-op. So, I'm doing well! I've posted an erect pic. Really jazzed about this grip...I think there may be many benefits to it...stronger erections, help with early ejaculation and God willing....growth. Good luck to all.